Hello everyone!
And when self-esteem begins in ourselves? Many people feel helpless or worthless, these feelings lead to self-pity. This self-pity begins to diminish and disrupt our patterns of vibration and this results in?
Diseases and disorders! Diseases are not only results in derangements of nature. Most of our illnesses begin in ourselves, in our "sick" spirit (in a vibration), the spirit is not affected by matter but by the thoughts, feelings, emotions and vibrations that generate them, but the physical body is affected by all forms of spirit, when it is healthy the body responds positively when the spirit is in them imbalance is reflected in the body.
It can be seen easily a person with low self-esteem, she is insecure and does not trust itself has no inner experience, because they do not value their inner world and do not awaken latent abilities and potential. This means it has an extremely small and focused view of life and its events.
When we fail to interpret the events of life and the natural follow-up which will involve his destiny, our existence plunge, in a total lack of sense. Many people feel bad for not being able to know or not perform certain tasks or do not know how to handle certain situations.
Each individual has a way of thinking and reacting to situations. No one may charge another being, the same response that would only generate their distress for both parties. A perfect example is to charge a child an adult attitude. How many parents talk to their children aggressively, because these take childish attitudes. A child can not act like an adult, it does not have the baggage necessary to do so. We are like children in many moments, but that does not mean we are worse (or better) than anyone else.
"God created all spirits simple and ignorant, that is, without knowing it. (...) Spirits, in its origin, would be like children,ignorant and inexperienced, only gradually acquiring the knowledge they need to go through the different stages of life."
We first of all have to consider that simple and ignorant does not mean inferior! Simple means - basic, spontaneous, natural and primary. Ignorant - who has no self-awareness. Everyone has the potential to grow and develop.
This potential in many instances is latent because they do nottrust in ourselves, and we find ourselves not able to perform certain actions. The main purpose of our incarnation is theawareness of the richness of our inner world. We are divine essences in search of perfection, whose path is self-discovery.
But the fact that many people are endowed with great abilities does not make them better than anyone and not earlier (beware of pride!). We can compare our evolution as the wings of anangel. One wing the intellectual and the other the moral side, if we develop only one will be unable to fly. We have to do even in small progressions, to go forward intellectually and morally in order to raise great flights, without the fear of the “fall” (misfortunes of all sorts).
Some skilled people are lost and use their abilities to escape from the world (what we say in the first post), others feel unable to do anything and feel "bad." And some because they are able, are proud and fall, one time or another, victims of their own pride. The human being is a complicated "pet" right? hehehe ...
To slow a bit of our low self-esteem we can think as follows:
- We are potentially able to make decisions without going through to endless advice;
- We have a divine individuality, completely separate from the others;
- We do things because we like, not to please people;
- Will use constantly in our common sense, so the critics and the criticisms did not reach us with ease;
- We will take our own decisions, while respecting those of others;
- Increased trust in the Light that is within us, she will always lead us the best ways.
Let us think about ourselves, and we can enter our intimacy. Let us fight for the general evolution, this evolution that begins in our own example, good and bad. Beginning to be noticed, analyzed, and internalized in a row, slowly changing the world. This speed depends only on the effort each of us.
Until next week ^-^...
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sábado, 13 de agosto de 2011
segunda-feira, 8 de agosto de 2011
Low Esteem
Hello everyone!
Today we will talk of this feeling that is so widespread among men. That kills and destroys large potential. Many people act to beat yourself up with guilt feelings, excessive negative emotional charge that often develop feelings of inadequacy and frustration due to the constant devaluation of personal ability and skill.
These feelings often begins at an early age where a set of ideas were repressed in the unconscious by the creature's social "beliefs". Everyone over time and with social life, absorb concepts and ideas that are transmitted by family and society at many levels, besides those analyzed and created by ourselves.
We can say that any inferiority complex starts in materialism?
You can say yes, because the materialistic person on seeing themselves many times tied to living standards that are not suitable for her, or be seen attached to ideas that are not supported internally but which are imposed upon him, and to think that only "have this opportunity" to live. Begins to act inconsistently and angry.
The materialistic creature, must then believe that it is superior to compensate for his idea that has the insignificance of the existence or lack of meaning in which they live. The spiritual being on the contrary, like their peers finds himself, because he knows that the laws that govern the universe are to everyone and that each person is as good as can be, according to their degree of evolution, which also depends on individual effort.
Behind the present attitudes of superiority toward others, they are often trying to overcome a feeling of inferiority. At that thought, "I'll try to get you down, to feel better!"
On many occasions, people try to compensate for this feeling of inferiority,
adopting ways of living that exaggerate and glorify his own personality. tendency to
arrogance, delusional megalomaniac, show preference for the part of the procession of those who have internalized a depreciation of themselves.
When we are materialistic, We don’t aim our eyes over Eternity, we believe that everything comes from the random and that nothing exists but the physical plane, this is what starts the process of inferiority. So we created unconscious patterns of life, based on that since "we are nothing" and consider ourselves a product of chance.
We ignore our divine essence and live accusing chance or bad luck, which insists upon us, as ignore or reject the natural and divine law governing everything and everyone equally, without distinction.
We have this beautiful quote that is very useful to us, [1] "The first and essential step, so that we can heal the sense of low esteem or inferiority is the belief in the immortality of souls and the plurality of stocks, coupled with the belief we are spiritual beings created whole and complete, having a human experience in order to become aware of our wholeness. The following steps should be taken to be reflections on the causes of our feelings of inferiority, the way they were acquired and beliefs motivated them. It is essential to remember that you can always change or transform our "lifestyle". To this end, we do not doubt our abilities and natural vocations, nor question systematically, our inner strength. To gain confidence, you only need to reclaim values, which already exists in us by divine right. "
We also take this quote to reflect against the random [2] "(...)The harmony that exists in the mechanism of the universe reveals an intelligent power (...) (...) chance is blind and can not produce the effects that intelligence produces. A random chance would not be intelligent. "
Reflect on those words and thoughts about some attitudes and Thursday will see the low esteem of another even more closely linked to our inner life.
[1] As Dores da Alma - Francisco Neto Espirito Santa - the spirit Hammed. I. Baixa Estima
[2] The book of spirits - Part I, Cap I, question 8.
Today we will talk of this feeling that is so widespread among men. That kills and destroys large potential. Many people act to beat yourself up with guilt feelings, excessive negative emotional charge that often develop feelings of inadequacy and frustration due to the constant devaluation of personal ability and skill.
These feelings often begins at an early age where a set of ideas were repressed in the unconscious by the creature's social "beliefs". Everyone over time and with social life, absorb concepts and ideas that are transmitted by family and society at many levels, besides those analyzed and created by ourselves.
We can say that any inferiority complex starts in materialism?
You can say yes, because the materialistic person on seeing themselves many times tied to living standards that are not suitable for her, or be seen attached to ideas that are not supported internally but which are imposed upon him, and to think that only "have this opportunity" to live. Begins to act inconsistently and angry.
The materialistic creature, must then believe that it is superior to compensate for his idea that has the insignificance of the existence or lack of meaning in which they live. The spiritual being on the contrary, like their peers finds himself, because he knows that the laws that govern the universe are to everyone and that each person is as good as can be, according to their degree of evolution, which also depends on individual effort.
Behind the present attitudes of superiority toward others, they are often trying to overcome a feeling of inferiority. At that thought, "I'll try to get you down, to feel better!"
On many occasions, people try to compensate for this feeling of inferiority,
adopting ways of living that exaggerate and glorify his own personality. tendency to
arrogance, delusional megalomaniac, show preference for the part of the procession of those who have internalized a depreciation of themselves.
When we are materialistic, We don’t aim our eyes over Eternity, we believe that everything comes from the random and that nothing exists but the physical plane, this is what starts the process of inferiority. So we created unconscious patterns of life, based on that since "we are nothing" and consider ourselves a product of chance.
We ignore our divine essence and live accusing chance or bad luck, which insists upon us, as ignore or reject the natural and divine law governing everything and everyone equally, without distinction.
We have this beautiful quote that is very useful to us, [1] "The first and essential step, so that we can heal the sense of low esteem or inferiority is the belief in the immortality of souls and the plurality of stocks, coupled with the belief we are spiritual beings created whole and complete, having a human experience in order to become aware of our wholeness. The following steps should be taken to be reflections on the causes of our feelings of inferiority, the way they were acquired and beliefs motivated them. It is essential to remember that you can always change or transform our "lifestyle". To this end, we do not doubt our abilities and natural vocations, nor question systematically, our inner strength. To gain confidence, you only need to reclaim values, which already exists in us by divine right. "
We also take this quote to reflect against the random [2] "(...)The harmony that exists in the mechanism of the universe reveals an intelligent power (...) (...) chance is blind and can not produce the effects that intelligence produces. A random chance would not be intelligent. "
Reflect on those words and thoughts about some attitudes and Thursday will see the low esteem of another even more closely linked to our inner life.
[1] As Dores da Alma - Francisco Neto Espirito Santa - the spirit Hammed. I. Baixa Estima
[2] The book of spirits - Part I, Cap I, question 8.
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